Thursday, September 24, 2009

Life after HIV & AIDS



The latest publication or announcement about Mzansi being on the verge of discovering a cure for HIV & AIDS, left me overwhelmed with excitement; the prospect of realizing Love Life's objective: "Living with HIV-free Generation". What a colossal & emancipating discovery, viral load reduced to zero with no or minimal side-effects, and the ability of the cure to prevent HI Virus from entering the human cells. Wow, that's miraculous! My excitement was short lived by the thought of possible and realistic aftermath...

The current state of affairs - The ignorance displayed by South Africans with regard to the excruciatingly spiraling statistics of new infections, stereotypical thoughts that hamper progress and over shadow efforts made in raising awareness, destitute people wanting to contract HIV in order to access the Grants, and people's persistent apathy. Is the impending cure going to cause or exacerbate other social ills?

Most people, young & old, indulge in unprotected sex, even with the knowledge they had around HIV & AIDS. Then I pause & wonder about the aftermath: What's gonna happen to approximately 13 million people who are dependent on the state grant? Won't the country be in crisis with the sudden boom in natality (birth rate)? Won't we now see rape cases sky rocketing? Promiscuity or just casual engagement in coital acts? The prospect or fate of employees of flourishing HIV & AIDS related organizations? Capacity to deal with brimming or swarming rate of Sexually Transmitted Infections?

How do we instill sense of responsibility? Furthermore, will possible employment opportunities be created for millions who aren't working & are dependent on the state grant for survival? As we eagerly anticipate the treasurous discovery, one can't help but wonder...

Thursday, September 17, 2009

MONOTONY IN SA GOSPEL MUSIC



As a person who loves and is enthralled by a diverse genre of music, I find Gospel music in SA tedious or wearisome. Not that I myself am the connoisseur, but have an ear for good quality music. With the incessant emergence or revelation of new Gospel artist, one gets excited anticipating a breath of ingenuity or creativity in this virtuous genre, but alas rendition of the same old hymnal AGAIN.

 

I am gravely perturbed or agitated by variety of artists' endeavour to "bling" or bring a "vibey" tempo to the clichéd mantra or hymn. This to me is utter abhorrence and lay bare a cesspool of lack of innovative thoughts in composing the music.  Artists use computer-generated cadence or rhythm, whilst rendering the weary hymns verbatim – and we are supposed to exult to that "genius innovation". I also enthusiastically appreciate the wealth of talent or aptitude amassed and unleashed through the Joyous Celebration project, but having to applaud the "stroke of genius" of a variety of artists rendering mostly the same old hymns through their sequel (Joyous 1 – 13). The same artists then embark on solo projects, and render 'remixed' versions of the same hymns – this is absurd.

 

Like some of the music fanatics out there, I don't shy away from purchasing and accumulating well produced and talent-filled original CDs, but having to pay for assortment of CDs by different artist performing the same song – that's pure lunacy. I diligently believe that, the Almighty will also appreciate and treasure inventiveness.

 

Can somebody please SAVE me from the ear-ache torture from this piercing dull music? I am spiritually thirsty for originality…

Wednesday, September 16, 2009

Brain Drain on Facebook



With the dawn of less expensive and convenient social interactive tools, I gushed out a sigh of relief anticipating developmental and robust discussion of credible or authentic issues on social pages like MXit, Facebook, Twitter, Flickr, etc. With Mxit relegated to the disposal of primary and high school kids, I thought Facebook was going to make meaningful inroads, but was I disappointed. Not that I am advocating for everything to be too serious and formal, but have fun interacting and addressing issues that are of concern to our society.

Issues that attract attention and receive comments are just petty, childish or immature postings. People raise thought provoking issues based on current affairs or issues that are negatively affecting our societal advancement, they hardly receive a comment, input or a negating view. But when somebody post: "I need a drink..." or just "I'm in need" people will be flocking to post their pervertish comments. As compared to other social/interactive networks that are there, Facebook has to be the most desolute and regressive one. I initially thought maybe is the people that I interact with, but no, even after expanding my horison and perusing other people's daily post, I was disappointed. There is just no meaningful and developmental discussions happening on FB. I was enticed to join one group there - Ghetto Spitters - anticipating posting of beautiful and inspirational poems there. OMG, people still think vulgar rhymes, how pathetic that is.

I embrace promote innovative ways of interacting, but can we pls RAISE and UP the level and not stagnate...

Tuesday, September 15, 2009

“DARKIES JUST DON’T READ”



Sihle Khumalo writes
Black people and reading just do not mix. First things first: before anybody tells me about the string of degrees they have. I am talking about general (i.e. non-academic) reading. In this country, with almost 50 million people, a book has to sell 5 000 copies to be regarded as a bestseller. That can only mean one thing: South Africans – of whom almost 90% are black and about 95% of those African – just do not read. I have often wondered why blacks do not read.

I have narrowed it to two reasons: Firstly the inferior Bantu education – which most of us were exposed to – never, ever encouraged us to read. The last thing the National Party wanted was vast number of knowledgeable blacks. Go to any black household and you will find lots of music tapes, LPs, CDs and DVDs and a handful, if any, of general books. That, by the way, includes blacks in the suburbs. The lack of reading is the black thing, irrespective of where you live.
It is way more fashionable to have loads of music than to be truly knowledgeable. The second reason why black people do not read is, admittedly, because reading is not a basic need. So as long as they have to worry about basic things like where they are going to sleep and where the next meal will come from, the last thing on their minds will be: “what book am I going to read today?”

Another reason (read: excuse) for lack of reading is that most books in this country do not appeal to a black audience; and thus the vast majority of people cannot relate to the products on offer. Bullsh*t! The fact is there are countless books written by black (and white) South African, which an average black person can relate to, but those books never seem to crack it in the market. Why? Because the vast majority of black South Africans do not even know that such books even exist.
Another famous excuse is that there are no bookshops in the townships. Well, the only bookshop in Soweto – a location with more than a million black people – closed down at the end of August because: “Eish, business was very slow.” A friend of mine forever tells me that the reason we darkies do not read is because hardly any book is written in our language. It might be a valid argument, but let’s look at the facts: former President Nelson Mandela wrote a bestseller, Long Walk to Freedom. This award winning book was subsequently translated into Xhosa by author Professor Peter Mtuze. Did it make it into the Sunday Times Top 10, which tracks sales in more than 120 book outlets nationwide? No, of course not. Not even for a single week.

You can defend the indefensible as much as you like, but the facts are there and they all point to the same thing: black people just do not read. As a black person, when was the last time you bought a non-academic book, started reading it and finished it? When was the last time your black friends did? When last did you spend at least five minutes reading something to your child, niece or nephew?
There is so much more in life than being vuvuzela-blowing-soccer-mad people who can dance until sunrise. Our past is not ideal, but we can our future far better by doing one thing: reading general books. After all, oppression, just like freedom, is mostly a state of mind. As darkies we need to collectively take a quantum leap and free ourselves from ignorance and the slavery of the mind.
While you scream and shout, please excuse me; my black arse is feeling kind of itchy.
Khumalo is the author of bestselling book Dark Continent my Arse, and Heart of Africa which is his second book.
Adapted from Sunday Times – 13 September 2009

“WOMEN ARE THE BIGGEST CHEATS”


For the past decade Cherie Green run confidential introduction business for people wishing to have an affair – www.aboutlovers.co.za. She assert or affirm that she is qualified to speak about why South African women have affairs, with reference to the article published in Sunday Times (6 September).

She highlights two basic reasons. The first is the need for a high-status man to pay attention to them, compliment them and generally make them feel they are desirable again. This according to Cherie may be a sad commentary on the neglect and lack of emotional intelligence of their male partners. The second reason is fundamentally different and seems to relate to the emerging South African culture.

She further states that South African women love money and all it can buy, which include cars, trips, jewellery, designer accessories (especially luggage and handbags) and “pocket money”. Even professional women, who may be financially independent, want to be spoilt by their new lovers. Tokens of affection don’t count – they want the real stuff!
If men are not wealthy executives, professionals or entrepreneurs, they (women) are simply not interested in meeting them. Hence the display of social status extends to the world of affairs, claims Cherie. She explains that there is no apology for this from either party – it’s a tacit but mutual understanding. The article in Sunday Times (6 Sept ’09) stated that women were better at lying and deception than men. She admits that she hasn’t noticed women being better or worse than men at keeping their private affairs, because they (the cheating pair) know what they are doing, and are very careful.
She explains that what she has noticed is that men are more reckless, because to them a glamorous mistress is another way of displaying status, by drawing attention to what they can afford.
Adapted from Sunday Times – 13 September 2009, letter by Cherie Green.

Friday, September 4, 2009

What's Important Now?

What's Important Now

 

With the personal and e-interaction that I had with most of you, i.e. face-to-face, e-mails, and blogs, I realized how easy it is to whine, complain, blame, and lambast. Little realizing the phalanx of blessings and the joys in life of waking up to a brand new day and the thought that someone cares.

 
Then I got thinking... I've had plenty of inspiration.
For the past couple months I've got lazy; I lost my drive, focus, ambition, and basically all the good qualities that make Vusi Moalodi who he is. I have nobody to blame but myself. Success is not an accident. We are the reason for our own happiness or demise, and I am going to start being responsible for my happiness again. I've had to reevaluate myself. In my life, there haven't been any "free lunches". I've worked for everything I have, and I've done it with very little outside help. I have been the reason for my own successes. And... I've always been the reason for my own lack of success.
I think that right now I'm in a major turning point in my life... and I'm going to embrace the opportunity. The opportunity to live! To live is to have life. Neither have I won the lottery nor received an invite from Donald J. Trump to manage one of his exquisite hotels. Nothing extreme... its been simple actually. I have great people in my life, you are maybe part of those. I'm enjoying life one day at a time.

For the first time in my life... I'm actually happy.
Some people might read my blogs and think "who is he to give advice on this or that...". And I'll be the first to tell you that I'm far from perfect. One thing I can tell you is that I appreciate life. Do I have problems? Negative things happen? Sure... who doesn't. Who hasn't been hurt in life? Who doesn't wish they could change a thing or two in their past? What I realized is that: As long as you walk this earth, you are not immune to the daily hassle or problems. But for every sad story I have, somebody has one just as sad, if not more... you don't want to read about my sad stories... and frankly, I don't have to hear about yours to appreciate and tolerate the person you are.

I try to have a "W.I.N" attitude; W.I.N. being an acronym for "What's Important Now". I cant change my past, nor can you change yours. But I can focus on right now. Enjoy the blessings that life has given me right now. If you think about 'whats important now', and stop living in yesterday, you'll start living today.

Have a great time ahead everybody!